"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is it with women these days?

gangsterwhack

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I don't know if it's the fact they are more independent now, but, they are a lot harder to communicate too now then a few years ago. You can't even expect to get a hi back or anything if you say it to them!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're not saying "Hi" while she's walking home down the street at night are you?

Sounds like they're just some conceited ho's. Don't worry about it. I'd be worried though if every girl you say hello to just snubs you... but that's not the case, right?
 

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Of course not, I say hi to them in places like malls and what not, but, they just blow it off. Not all of them do it, but, I'd say a good amount do. I'm not exactly ugly either, I've had quite a few girls actually Approach me and tell me they like me, even though I never once exchanged words with them. But that's besides the point, it just seems like girls have gotten more arrogant.
 

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i dont know if the problem is arrogance, probably if you seem to friendly to them. they probably think you're trying to hit on them. if they see you doing it to other girls including her then yea
 

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too, you gotta think if they get hit on 50 times a day, they'd get sick of it...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No no no no, not at all. For instance, me and my friend will be walking by and if we see a girl walking by, just a casual hi. They don't even acknowledge it or say anything.
 

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open your mind

You think the real reason is cause of arrogance??

girls are different from guys, they have many insecurities and worries than we do.

for one thing, girls have to worry about getting pregnant

#1 what if the stranger in the street is a serial rapist
#2 what if he's a stalker
#3 serial killer

not all girls will be so cold to you on the street, but there are some with insecurities they have to worry about.

if a girl hangs out late at night till 3 am, they either find a guy to drive them home or someone to escort her home. you cant expect her to go walk home alone, and not worry about rapists or stalkers
 

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The only times when a girl will respect you if you are super cute/popular or you already know her. If she doesn't know who you are, and you're just average looking - be more subtle.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
The only times when a girl will respect you if you are super cute/popular or you already know her. If she doesn't know who you are, and you're just average looking - be more subtle.
actually this guy just made a good point, i do agree with him.

girls really do respect the cute guy more so than the ugly/average guy. i've seen it all my life.
so probably physical attractiveness is a major factor in this also.
 
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