"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what is it with girls putting drunken pics on dating sites

another_nice_guy

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I like a drink as much as the next guy but its not the most flattering look, ha

Does anyone else notice this?

(I guess if girls get 10x messages than guys it doesnt really matter)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Radharc

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What did you expected in a mediatized culture that idolizes drunk sluts (Paris Hilton and similars).

So being one makes them look cool, their egos get validation, and they also get attention from the opposite sex.
 

Wilko

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Let me guess, lots of protruding tongues? pouting lips? douchebag hand signs? My favourite, hands down, would have to be the pics of 'daddy's little angel' deepthroating a bottle of sugary vodka pre-mix.

In one sense it's a good thing because they're identifiying themselves pretty clearly, less filtering for you. Or, you could bring your best Jersey Shores game.

Anyone here "specialise" in these sorts of girls? What's a club-rat doing on a dating site, feeding an addiction for attention maybe? Usually having a good bleat about being sleazed on in clubs from what I've seen, "OMG I'm so tired of players, where are all the real men?". Not hating here, I don't really pursue them myself, just analysing a bit.

For arguments sake, let's say that you do want to game an obvious Paris Hilton wannabe on a dating site. What's the plan of attack? Match her VIP list for VIP list? Doubt it, maybe a little DJ 101, take her off the pedestal, that sort of thing.

Hmmm...

Party girl huh? There's no way you could out-drink Lindsay Lohan.

Cute dress, I think it looked better on Paris.

Didn't I see you while I was in rehab?

I think I saw your unauthorised sex tape, nice ass! Shame about the.....

Just off the top of my head, I'm sure they could use some polish. But yeah, if there's guys here who successfully and consistently run game on club-rats (online) let's hear about it.
 
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