"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what is it with girls putting drunken pics on dating sites

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another_nice_guy

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I like a drink as much as the next guy but its not the most flattering look, ha

Does anyone else notice this?

(I guess if girls get 10x messages than guys it doesnt really matter)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What did you expected in a mediatized culture that idolizes drunk sluts (Paris Hilton and similars).

So being one makes them look cool, their egos get validation, and they also get attention from the opposite sex.
 
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Let me guess, lots of protruding tongues? pouting lips? douchebag hand signs? My favourite, hands down, would have to be the pics of 'daddy's little angel' deepthroating a bottle of sugary vodka pre-mix.

In one sense it's a good thing because they're identifiying themselves pretty clearly, less filtering for you. Or, you could bring your best Jersey Shores game.

Anyone here "specialise" in these sorts of girls? What's a club-rat doing on a dating site, feeding an addiction for attention maybe? Usually having a good bleat about being sleazed on in clubs from what I've seen, "OMG I'm so tired of players, where are all the real men?". Not hating here, I don't really pursue them myself, just analysing a bit.

For arguments sake, let's say that you do want to game an obvious Paris Hilton wannabe on a dating site. What's the plan of attack? Match her VIP list for VIP list? Doubt it, maybe a little DJ 101, take her off the pedestal, that sort of thing.

Hmmm...

Party girl huh? There's no way you could out-drink Lindsay Lohan.

Cute dress, I think it looked better on Paris.

Didn't I see you while I was in rehab?

I think I saw your unauthorised sex tape, nice ass! Shame about the.....

Just off the top of my head, I'm sure they could use some polish. But yeah, if there's guys here who successfully and consistently run game on club-rats (online) let's hear about it.
 
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