"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

What is it? with Girls and NOTES

S-lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
536
Reaction score
0
Age
37
OK, on friday i recieved two notes from two different girls (again<= if you remeber my first post) its wierd, its like they enjoy talking on paper, instead of verbally(or maybe they dont wanna get introuble in class, i dont know!) OK so in my last post i told you guys about me telling this girl that i didnt have her number(im a DJin way, i just dont feel like going back through that process) ok so the same girl gives me a note saying:

HB: (478) 960-8326
ME: i verbally say that i cant read what she wrote, it was bad handwritting,

Then her friend snatches the note off of my desk, and rewrites the number and also adds

HB#2: How is that hard to read yours(as in my writting) is prob. worse
ME: You just want to start a convo with me; 16 years old, with a drivers liscence and you dont even drive, hmmmmm......wat does that tell us......
HB#2: Actually I do drive, where i want to & Im not ready to go on the interstate myself yet.
ME: hard to drive when your 4'10 huh?
HB#2: No Im 5'1 and no its not. cause i have a volvo brand new 05
Me: WOW 5'1- you'd better stop growing, you GIANT!(Im 6'2)
HB#2 Im fine, im going to be about 5'3 but im fine the way i am, your just jealous

RAN OUTTA SPACE ON THE CARD......LOL

ok so origanal the note was giving to me from another girl, and now she writes me another one saying
HB#1: wat are you writing about with katina (HB#2)
Me: wo...... dont tell me you getting jealous
HB#1: hahaha! maybe but i want two know

BELL RINGS CLASS OVER

i dont know what it is with some girls and notes, do they girl you guys notes also??? If they do, they must be interested in you, or testing you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

immrtlwun

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
289
Reaction score
0
don't worry about it, just go along with it. Girls do a lot of things that we (guys) don't understand. Don't worry about little things like notes. As long as you get her number and eventually a date its all good.

p.s.- next time dont write her number down, somebody here might just call her and steal her from you.
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
notes are a way of communication for us .
if you reply then we know things are good.
if you do not reply , then we know things are bad.

no worries, the notes stop at the end of highschool.



for example, gio and i rarely leave each other notes.
when we do, its very thoughtful .
usually we just tell each other whatever is going on instead of leaving a note for it.
 

Centaurion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2001
Messages
2,314
Reaction score
17
Location
Europe
lol smart move posting her number here.


some twit will probably call her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

S-lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
536
Reaction score
0
Age
37
LOL.......without her name! good luck whoever does
 

AC/DC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,270
Reaction score
3
Age
38
Location
hyphy bay area, ca
I got bad news for you man...

I called her... she's my new girlfriend. Thanks dude! :cheer:
 

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
1,007
Reaction score
10
Location
On The Road to Self-Improvement
Here is what you do on the next note:

Write the note then send one of your friends to give it to her while you wait at a corner.
This is what you write:

Do you like me?
Check yes or no:

Then put some boxes with yes and another with no.

Works EVERYTIME!

Cheers mate.
 

S-lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
536
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Originally posted by bluelemond
Here is what you do on the next note:

Write the note then send one of your friends to give it to her while you wait at a corner.
This is what you write:

Do you like me?
Check yes or no:

Then put some boxes with yes and another with no.

Works EVERYTIME!

Cheers mate.
i hope your not being serious
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Smooth Player 056

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2005
Messages
868
Reaction score
3
the firs convo on the card seemed like too much ****y and not enough funny.......I think they both dig you and yes your right the other girl is getting jealous. Id play both of the chicks for now but soon you will have to pick one




- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 
Top