"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what is it to be a DJ?

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Alright i owe many thanks to this forum its definatly helped with my "game" but i need to know whats like the aim of a DJ? To attract girls, and alot of this stuff really does work but ill i do is play the game to play the game. I get girls, but once i got them i lose all intrest, the games over. I can't rember the last time i really "liked" a girl, now it just goes i hear so and so thinks im cute or whatever i go spit game, fool around, know i got her, and then i just lose all intrest and end contact. Ive gotten very good at this, and if thats what your looking for then follow what you read i think you should not change your self completely to become a so called Don Juan but the writings here will help. I also know its stupid to think some highschool romance is gonna last forever but still id like to have it. Share my life with someone even if its only for a year or two have that connection with someone. Im not sure what im getting at but what is your guys take on all this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A DJ is more than just someone who is good at pulling girls,girls are only a part of it
 
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IMO, its all about improving yourself to the best you can be, this is the HS forum so many of us are just starting this, its a lifestyle and a mindset, its not about girls, girls are a consequence of the DJ ways, its about being happy and successful, being where you want to be and ejoying it.
 
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Put simply, in the world of attraction a DJ gets what he wants. If he wants to sleep with a women then he does it. If he feels a need to bond and get close to a woman than he will. A DJ knows what he wants and does what he needs to to get it.

Thats how I always saw it. It's an ideal which is hard to reach. You're not going to read a few boards, practice a few tricks, and get there. That's why, like stated above, the real goal is always self improvement. Just dont forget why you're improving yourself. The aim is whatever you want, and the skills of a DJ are your tools to get it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"May the Venusian Arts enrich your life, not define it" - Mystery, AKA Erik Von Markovik.

It's saying, that DJ, PU, whatever you want to call it, is about making your life better, but you should never let it influence you too greatly.

Think it over, maybe its time to give it the goodbye like Style did.

Don't know, but as for me, im still im my early stages of becoming a really skilled Pick Up Artist.

Also, if you find the spice for DJ is slipping away, set yourself tough goals to try and accomplish.
 
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