"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what is it to be a DJ?

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Alright i owe many thanks to this forum its definatly helped with my "game" but i need to know whats like the aim of a DJ? To attract girls, and alot of this stuff really does work but ill i do is play the game to play the game. I get girls, but once i got them i lose all intrest, the games over. I can't rember the last time i really "liked" a girl, now it just goes i hear so and so thinks im cute or whatever i go spit game, fool around, know i got her, and then i just lose all intrest and end contact. Ive gotten very good at this, and if thats what your looking for then follow what you read i think you should not change your self completely to become a so called Don Juan but the writings here will help. I also know its stupid to think some highschool romance is gonna last forever but still id like to have it. Share my life with someone even if its only for a year or two have that connection with someone. Im not sure what im getting at but what is your guys take on all this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A DJ is more than just someone who is good at pulling girls,girls are only a part of it
 
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IMO, its all about improving yourself to the best you can be, this is the HS forum so many of us are just starting this, its a lifestyle and a mindset, its not about girls, girls are a consequence of the DJ ways, its about being happy and successful, being where you want to be and ejoying it.
 
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Put simply, in the world of attraction a DJ gets what he wants. If he wants to sleep with a women then he does it. If he feels a need to bond and get close to a woman than he will. A DJ knows what he wants and does what he needs to to get it.

Thats how I always saw it. It's an ideal which is hard to reach. You're not going to read a few boards, practice a few tricks, and get there. That's why, like stated above, the real goal is always self improvement. Just dont forget why you're improving yourself. The aim is whatever you want, and the skills of a DJ are your tools to get it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"May the Venusian Arts enrich your life, not define it" - Mystery, AKA Erik Von Markovik.

It's saying, that DJ, PU, whatever you want to call it, is about making your life better, but you should never let it influence you too greatly.

Think it over, maybe its time to give it the goodbye like Style did.

Don't know, but as for me, im still im my early stages of becoming a really skilled Pick Up Artist.

Also, if you find the spice for DJ is slipping away, set yourself tough goals to try and accomplish.
 
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