diplomatic_lie
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 9, 2004
- Messages
- 537
- Reaction score
- 0
Is there really such thing as a restaurant where girls all have giant bazookas, or is this just some myth?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Correct. my friend happened to go to hooters 2 weeks ago for his friends bday dinner.Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Its a family restaurant that has women with big t!ts in tight t-shirts?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Could you link to an article substantiating this claim? I'm unable to find anything remotely verifying the accuracy of what you've said, including both searching for "atlanta topless hooters" in google, and calling the two numbers yellowpages.com has listed for Hooters in Atlanta, GA (their corporate office and a restaurant location).Originally posted by penkitten
your family might enjoy their wings at any of their fine locations however, unless it has changed , the atlanta branch is still topless and you must be 18 to eat there.
no of course i dont have a link , however, when i was 13 , i went to atlanta with my friends who were older and had 2 children younger than i and i babysat them. i actually think they brought me just to babysit at night time but that was ok, cause i got to go to six flags and stone mountain and stuff for free so it was kewl.Originally posted by diablo
Could you link to an article substantiating this claim? I'm unable to find anything remotely verifying the accuracy of what you've said, including both searching for "atlanta topless hooters" in google, and calling the two numbers yellowpages.com has listed for Hooters in Atlanta, GA (their corporate office and a restaurant location).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.