diplomatic_lie
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Is there really such thing as a restaurant where girls all have giant bazookas, or is this just some myth?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Correct. my friend happened to go to hooters 2 weeks ago for his friends bday dinner.Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Its a family restaurant that has women with big t!ts in tight t-shirts?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Could you link to an article substantiating this claim? I'm unable to find anything remotely verifying the accuracy of what you've said, including both searching for "atlanta topless hooters" in google, and calling the two numbers yellowpages.com has listed for Hooters in Atlanta, GA (their corporate office and a restaurant location).Originally posted by penkitten
your family might enjoy their wings at any of their fine locations however, unless it has changed , the atlanta branch is still topless and you must be 18 to eat there.
no of course i dont have a link , however, when i was 13 , i went to atlanta with my friends who were older and had 2 children younger than i and i babysat them. i actually think they brought me just to babysit at night time but that was ok, cause i got to go to six flags and stone mountain and stuff for free so it was kewl.Originally posted by diablo
Could you link to an article substantiating this claim? I'm unable to find anything remotely verifying the accuracy of what you've said, including both searching for "atlanta topless hooters" in google, and calling the two numbers yellowpages.com has listed for Hooters in Atlanta, GA (their corporate office and a restaurant location).
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.