what is happening here?

[byrd_ato]

I just need to know what ya'll think this chick is doing. I've been talking to this girl for about 2-3 weeks and it all seemed to be going well. Now I havn't seen her in awhile cause she lives 2 hrs away so that makes it alittle harder to work, but she kept giving me all the signs that she was very interested in me like, sending me text messages, calling me and saying " I was just thinking about you." and stuff like that. Well, I had a fishing trip planed for last weekend and I told her to come down here and go with me, and she sounded all excited about this, then a week before she tells me that her cousin is coming in from the war with Iraq and she can't come down. Ok, I can understand that, I would do the same if it was me. She told me that was on last wed. night. I told her that she needs to make it up to me by cooking me dinner or something and she said that sounds cool she would love to. Now heres where it gets a little tricky for me, I called her on sun. night and left a message to call me back later....no call, I called her on mon. night after class and she answers but is eating dinner with her aunt and cousin (the one in town) so I didn't want to interupt so I let her go and say call me later, she say's she will. Now it's thur. and no call. I'm just a little curious about the situation. For what it's worth I don't have the dreaded "oneitis" over this chick, I have a couple of hook up down here, I just trying to get feedback on I you think she is playing games or what. I just feel like she's giving me the cold shoulder all of the sudden. How bout some info on this.

 

[Desdinova]

Hard to say if anything's really going on. Give her a week or two to be finished being "busy" with her cousin, then call her. If you still get a cold shoulder, then toss her number. No point in wasting time on a chick who's pulling this kind of crap.

 

[NewMan]

I would not call her again. You've called her what? 5 times and she's not called you back.

If she interested she will call back when she's good and ready.

 

[byrd_ato]

Yeah, Desdinova that is what I was going to do in the first place.
and no, I havn't called 5 times, it was more like 2 times in about 5 days, but I do appreciate the help.

Just to let ya'll know, I'm not really looking for advice, just if ya'll think she is playing games or not. But ya'lls advice is appreciated so thanks for the help

 

[Dee-Zy]

Girls never call. Chances are she's not 'playing you' or 'giving you the cold shoulder', she's just being a girl.

Very few girls will call, even when they say they will.

I would think twice before I ditch that number.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Girls never call. Chances are she's not 'playing you' or 'giving you the cold shoulder', she's just being a girl.

Very few girls will call, even when they say they will.

I would think twice before I ditch that number.

Funny, isn't that a topic women constantly complain about regarding men?