"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is good wingmanship

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Let's start of with a few pointers. From experience or not, post your pointers here. Everyone should contribute.



1) Determine who is wingman and topgun. Wingman should promote topgun. (1 target)

2) In circumstances of target preferring wingman, topgun should demote himself and play wingman.

3) Taking one for the team should be expected. (2 or more targets)

4) Encouragement and support even if target/s are UG1-4s.

5) No laughing at topgun at any point. (breaks confidence when not ready) Joking is permissible if discussed.



ok your turn.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh come on! Don't tell me no one knows a thing or two on the arts of winging.. :confused:
 

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I guess there are only 3 basic rules then. My crummy idea never took off. I was hoping there were more tips but arh well...

PS. We smashed you in the 1st test.
 

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Do wingman play tag team just like WWF ? if top gun guy has a problem, does he give a signal to get everyone together in group meeting to devise strategies?

Has anyone use group meeting method to tackle problems ???:woo:
 

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Seriously? It's easier to go with a couple of mates. Not a whole group, at least not my group. A bunch of shy gawkers aren't too great. I've referred some here but no one has picked up on any skills.

I got a close# on a B6 by myself (included w/ BF, not my thing) so I'm thinking about going Rambo. I don't see the good in wingman no more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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