"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is good wingmanship

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Let's start of with a few pointers. From experience or not, post your pointers here. Everyone should contribute.



1) Determine who is wingman and topgun. Wingman should promote topgun. (1 target)

2) In circumstances of target preferring wingman, topgun should demote himself and play wingman.

3) Taking one for the team should be expected. (2 or more targets)

4) Encouragement and support even if target/s are UG1-4s.

5) No laughing at topgun at any point. (breaks confidence when not ready) Joking is permissible if discussed.



ok your turn.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh come on! Don't tell me no one knows a thing or two on the arts of winging.. :confused:
 

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I guess there are only 3 basic rules then. My crummy idea never took off. I was hoping there were more tips but arh well...

PS. We smashed you in the 1st test.
 

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Do wingman play tag team just like WWF ? if top gun guy has a problem, does he give a signal to get everyone together in group meeting to devise strategies?

Has anyone use group meeting method to tackle problems ???:woo:
 

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Seriously? It's easier to go with a couple of mates. Not a whole group, at least not my group. A bunch of shy gawkers aren't too great. I've referred some here but no one has picked up on any skills.

I got a close# on a B6 by myself (included w/ BF, not my thing) so I'm thinking about going Rambo. I don't see the good in wingman no more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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