You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sprint to the goalMissionary only, minimal foreplay, minimal duration, minimal noise.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To really set the scene, I like to drink a dram of whiskey, sigh heavily and then mumble "Let's get it over with."Sprint to the goal
That's nuts.To really set the scene, I like to drink a dram of whiskey, sigh heavily and then mumble "Let's get it over with."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In all seriousness, silliness from me aside, do different positions actually change the sensation/experience? Given my lack of experience in this area at present I genuinely don't know. Is it just an aesthetic choice or is there a reasoning behind it?
Apparently girl on top is the most dangerous position for a man, statistically. My mate broke his c*ck in this position, apparently it snapped like a ripe cucumber, lol.
Definitely yes, different positions change the sensation for both individuals. Its worth exploring what works! Lots to be had in doing so. If you are long enough and in a position that allows deep penetration you can feel the head of your penis inside her cervix and that's the best feeling in the world.In all seriousness, silliness from me aside, do different positions actually change the sensation/experience? Given my lack of experience in this area at present I genuinely don't know. Is it just an aesthetic choice or is there a reasoning behind it?
Apparently girl on top is the most dangerous position for a man, statistically. My mate broke his c*ck in this position, apparently it snapped like a ripe cucumber, lol.
My biggest fear next to sharks is a broken penis from girl on top.Definitely yes, different positions change the sensation for both individuals. Its worth exploring what works! Lots to be had in doing so. If you are long enough and in a position that allows deep penetration you can feel the head of your penis inside her cervix and that's the best feeling in the world.
I'd say the female benefits the most from different positions, especially those that focus on her klit as well as inside.
If you want to take it to a entirely new level, have sex in a sex swing sometime.
I've bent my penis with a girl on top, nothing serious, but we did have to take a time out.
Hahaha no, dead serious.Not sure if troll or serious with your comment but yeah different position give you different sensations.
My favorites are girl on top riding my d!ck and stood up her with high heels on bent over
This has actually piqued my curiosity. Maybe one day when I'm not pulling stupid hours I can experiment myself...Definitely yes, different positions change the sensation for both individuals. Its worth exploring what works! Lots to be had in doing so. If you are long enough and in a position that allows deep penetration you can feel the head of your penis inside her cervix and that's the best feeling in the world.
I'd say the female benefits the most from different positions, especially those that focus on her klit as well as inside.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DURATION: Enough for me not to get physically worn out cause I then start also losing my concentration (sweat getting in your face, eyes, etc.)Duration ?
Variety of positions ?
Both orgasm ?
What kind of foreplay ?
Moaning/grunting ?
Toys ?
Anal ?
Getting kinky ?
Post-sex ?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.