"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is going thru her mind when they look back

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See I spend a bunch of time in the uni library and this place is STUFFED with HB's

Hell I had women smile at me there and say hi to me and all that banging my head against the wall crap... so ... where was I. Now what I do remember is that this doesnt change your initiation, because if a lady likes your appearance, its on her terms.

While im typing this I realize this is partially a softener and it is.

But its also an insight that keeps you on track to stay in your own reality. Dont let it go as far that you feel guilty because a girl looked at you and nothing else happened.

Now back on topic:
Things you can do to start off: nod a little bit with your head, lift your shoulders (a bit like, hey i know its tough isnt it... it might not get you a date but it might create good rapport and maybe a little convo) by matter of Constant Improvement
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What was going through her head was, "Dayum! I hope he didn't smell that horrible beer fart I let slip!"
lol! Just think of that next time and go talk to her.
 

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Yesterday I was sitting in class (200 students) scanning the room watching people chat with each other waiting for the exam to start. As I was looking across the room I notice ths hot blonde blue eyes (the hottest girl in the class from everyone else's opinion), an HB8 in my standard, looking at me eyes wide open with a straight face the whole time. I locked eyes with her for maybe 2-3 seconds before turning my head away, not in a wimpy way but in a "not interested" kind of way.

Do you think the girl was looking at me or someone else, hence the no expression on her face? And do you think I ruined my chances with her by looking away?
 
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