"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is going thru her mind when they look back

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See I spend a bunch of time in the uni library and this place is STUFFED with HB's

Hell I had women smile at me there and say hi to me and all that banging my head against the wall crap... so ... where was I. Now what I do remember is that this doesnt change your initiation, because if a lady likes your appearance, its on her terms.

While im typing this I realize this is partially a softener and it is.

But its also an insight that keeps you on track to stay in your own reality. Dont let it go as far that you feel guilty because a girl looked at you and nothing else happened.

Now back on topic:
Things you can do to start off: nod a little bit with your head, lift your shoulders (a bit like, hey i know its tough isnt it... it might not get you a date but it might create good rapport and maybe a little convo) by matter of Constant Improvement
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What was going through her head was, "Dayum! I hope he didn't smell that horrible beer fart I let slip!"
lol! Just think of that next time and go talk to her.
 
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Yesterday I was sitting in class (200 students) scanning the room watching people chat with each other waiting for the exam to start. As I was looking across the room I notice ths hot blonde blue eyes (the hottest girl in the class from everyone else's opinion), an HB8 in my standard, looking at me eyes wide open with a straight face the whole time. I locked eyes with her for maybe 2-3 seconds before turning my head away, not in a wimpy way but in a "not interested" kind of way.

Do you think the girl was looking at me or someone else, hence the no expression on her face? And do you think I ruined my chances with her by looking away?
 
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