What is going on here?

[jnMissouri]

This one girl I hit on tried to get me to hang out with her female friends and a guy who she is also dating, from the same class.

She will even have him call me while they are out at the club with her lady friends. He sounds awkward on the phone, like he is wondering what's going on.

What's your take?

 

[zekko]

Clumsy attempt to keep you all in her life?
By trying to get you all to be friends?

 

[logicallefty]

She’s hoping you and he get into a fight over her at some point.

 

[chuck001]

Stay away from women like this.

 

[Tilex]

She's manufacturing drama in the most juvenile way possible.
And she's so pathetically bad at it that it comes off as a giant incoherent ridiculous mess.
It's so bad, it's funny!
This is the early stages of a young amateur drama queen.
Wait until she reaches her 30's and becomes a pro at it.

 

[wifehunter]

Ditch her.

 

[jnMissouri]

Actually this happened 13 years ago in college. I called her on her behavior and told her I met another girl, etc.

She went crazy calling and pursuing me. She broke up with the guy in front of the class to go out with me since I wouldn't date her while she was dating him. She couldn't let it go. I ended up calling the cops. She made a couple attempts to reach out again promising she would delete my number...unless I wanted her to keep it.

I didn't respond. She was insane. She eventually got married and had kids from what I heard. Like 2 months after all this.

I was more or less curious what people thought of this before I gave the ending.

 

[sazc]

Wait, wut?

This happened 13 years ago and your posting as if it occurred very recently?

 

[Ranger]

This one girl I hit on tried to get me to hang out with her female friends and a guy who she is also dating, from the same class.

She will even have him call me while they are out at the club with her lady friends. He sounds awkward on the phone, like he is wondering what's going on.

What's your take?

Despite this happening 13 years ago, I view it differently. Lots of opportunities in there.

 

[jnMissouri]

Despite this happening 13 years ago, I view it differently. Lots of opportunities in there.

Go on....

 

[jnMissouri]

Wait, wut?

This happened 13 years ago and your posting as if it occurred very recently?

I was mostly curious what people here would say was going on vs what I found out was going on.

 

[Ranger]

Go on....

Well she wants you to be known to her friends. It doesn’t matter what she is “trying to do”.
Make friends with all of them. There is a lot of branching possible in this situation.
She was inviting you into her social circle.

This happened to me in Frederick Maryland on a project I was ironing out. I was having dinner at a sports bar. This attractive woman came over and invited me to sit at a table with her, her husband and all their friends. It was a great time.
She was openly flirting with me. Her husband was cool with it. They were all swingers and none of them were ugly.

 

[Billtx49]

Actually this happened 13 years ago in college.

She went crazy calling and pursuing me.

She was insane.

I was more or less curious what people thought of this before I gave the ending.

The ending after 13 years? Leave the past where it is and don’t look back. You can’t rationalize crazy to yourself anyway…

 

[ohrein]

Wait, wut?

This happened 13 years ago and your posting as if it occurred very recently?

Pretty sure this poster is a troll. Doesn't seem to be many legitimate posts these days which is why I haven't been around as much. It's a shame.

 

[jnMissouri]

I was mostly curious what people here would say was going on vs what I found out was going on.

I think you might have missed the part about how she was inviting me out to compete with another guy who was also out with her friends and her dating...100% sure it wasn't about meeting her friends...

 

[jnMissouri]

Pretty sure this poster is a troll. Doesn't seem to be many legitimate posts these days which is why I haven't been around as much. It's a shame.

Lol, whatever...You're like the guy who claimed I'm clearly not dating other women. Yet I pulled up posts about banging women in the bathroom at work even, not to mention the other women I'm dating. Somehow when I posted that none of those guys came back to try to prove their claim that I'm not dating other women. A troll, lol. What a tool. Welcome to the ignore list.

 

[Ranger]

I think you might have missed the part about how she was inviting me out to compete with another guy who was also out with her friends and her dating...100% sure it wasn't about meeting her friends...

Even better. Interact more with her girlfriends. Win/win

 

[jnMissouri]

Even better. Interact more with her girlfriends. Win/win

That sounds good initially, but her friends are not likely to flirt back with a guy who they know she is interested in...

 

[Ranger]

That sounds good initially, but her friends are not likely to flirt back with a guy who they know she is interested in...

Ok you loose in all situations. Fine by me. I see opportunities.

 

[logicallefty]

If you really wanted to irk her and foobar her plans, meet the guy once, and then tell her "(Whats his name) was fun to hang with. Next time I go out sarging looking for women I should have him join me and be my wingman. Or I his. I bet we could both have a successful night. ".