“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What is going on her mind? What is she doing?

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Finding it a bit puzzling you're friends with this guy when you like his girlfriend. Why are you hanging out with the guy who is nailing the chick you liked? I'd feel crap hanging around like a hungry dog in that situation, I'd rather get a new social circle and find new people.

And why are you bothered by what she's doing anyway? She's not giving you any attention, don't give her any thought.

Also girls lose rationality once they're attached to a guy. I've seen girls still dreaming about dating some guy that treated them like s*** 5 years ago. Who cares why she's into this guy, move on and nail some other girl.

In fact, go nail some girl that your friend is really into, and see if he hangs around being your buddy afterwards. I'm guessing not.
We are friedns before this girl came into the picture. Hell, when she came we both kind off fell for her. He was a player, me a typical nice guy
 

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yes women NEVER EVER FORGET the bloke who made some serious hard love to em NEVER

read that word again.................... NEVER
So true - I've been ghosted for sh1t s3x... we don't get it right all the time.

I'm hoping my most recent ex crawls back in a few months for the D so I can tell her bye bye and make her feel some pain. Is that cruel of me?
 

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I'm hoping my most recent ex crawls back in a few months for the D so I can tell her bye bye and make her feel some pain. Is that cruel of me?
yes man come on you wouldnt teach that to a newbie, have sex as if its the last time your gonna see her and expect her to vanish each time

I have sex with all my exes, its great but it runs smoothly and natural we dont hear from each other for weeks then one drops the other a message

theres no blocking or games or spite, but we also dont sit texting all day like were gonna get bk together
 

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yes man come on you wouldnt teach that to a newbie, have sex as if its the last time your gonna see her and expect her to vanish each time

I have sex with all my exes, its great but it runs smoothly and natural we dont hear from each other for weeks then one drops the other a message

theres no blocking or games or spite, but we also dont sit texting all day like were gonna get bk together
That's what I originally wanted - as we like the same music/venues/events and DJ's I will inevitably run into her most likely in a few months. But now I just think what's the point of going back and satisfying her she can go searching for a replacement until the end of time.

I'm conflicted between the two ideas...
 

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tough call 4 of my exes dont play games 1 is a serious game player

I went on holiday to the ones house a few weeks back she lives in a village up by matlock,
Great for all parties involved how it should work like 2 Adults
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ok, first step is for me to just STOP thinking about this woman.

I'll play it by ear when the situation pops
 
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