"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is going on her mind? What is she doing?

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LessThanSmooth said:
Finding it a bit puzzling you're friends with this guy when you like his girlfriend. Why are you hanging out with the guy who is nailing the chick you liked? I'd feel crap hanging around like a hungry dog in that situation, I'd rather get a new social circle and find new people.

And why are you bothered by what she's doing anyway? She's not giving you any attention, don't give her any thought.

Also girls lose rationality once they're attached to a guy. I've seen girls still dreaming about dating some guy that treated them like s*** 5 years ago. Who cares why she's into this guy, move on and nail some other girl.

In fact, go nail some girl that your friend is really into, and see if he hangs around being your buddy afterwards. I'm guessing not.
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We are friedns before this girl came into the picture. Hell, when she came we both kind off fell for her. He was a player, me a typical nice guy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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derby1 said:
yes women NEVER EVER FORGET the bloke who made some serious hard love to em NEVER

read that word again.................... NEVER
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So true - I've been ghosted for sh1t s3x... we don't get it right all the time.

I'm hoping my most recent ex crawls back in a few months for the D so I can tell her bye bye and make her feel some pain. Is that cruel of me?
 
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Murkserious said:
I'm hoping my most recent ex crawls back in a few months for the D so I can tell her bye bye and make her feel some pain. Is that cruel of me?
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yes man come on you wouldnt teach that to a newbie, have sex as if its the last time your gonna see her and expect her to vanish each time

I have sex with all my exes, its great but it runs smoothly and natural we dont hear from each other for weeks then one drops the other a message

theres no blocking or games or spite, but we also dont sit texting all day like were gonna get bk together
 
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yes man come on you wouldnt teach that to a newbie, have sex as if its the last time your gonna see her and expect her to vanish each time

I have sex with all my exes, its great but it runs smoothly and natural we dont hear from each other for weeks then one drops the other a message

theres no blocking or games or spite, but we also dont sit texting all day like were gonna get bk together
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That's what I originally wanted - as we like the same music/venues/events and DJ's I will inevitably run into her most likely in a few months. But now I just think what's the point of going back and satisfying her she can go searching for a replacement until the end of time.

I'm conflicted between the two ideas...
 
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tough call 4 of my exes dont play games 1 is a serious game player

I went on holiday to the ones house a few weeks back she lives in a village up by matlock,
Great for all parties involved how it should work like 2 Adults
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, first step is for me to just STOP thinking about this woman.

I'll play it by ear when the situation pops
 
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