"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is going on her mind? What is she doing?

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LessThanSmooth said:
Finding it a bit puzzling you're friends with this guy when you like his girlfriend. Why are you hanging out with the guy who is nailing the chick you liked? I'd feel crap hanging around like a hungry dog in that situation, I'd rather get a new social circle and find new people.

And why are you bothered by what she's doing anyway? She's not giving you any attention, don't give her any thought.

Also girls lose rationality once they're attached to a guy. I've seen girls still dreaming about dating some guy that treated them like s*** 5 years ago. Who cares why she's into this guy, move on and nail some other girl.

In fact, go nail some girl that your friend is really into, and see if he hangs around being your buddy afterwards. I'm guessing not.
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We are friedns before this girl came into the picture. Hell, when she came we both kind off fell for her. He was a player, me a typical nice guy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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derby1 said:
yes women NEVER EVER FORGET the bloke who made some serious hard love to em NEVER

read that word again.................... NEVER
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So true - I've been ghosted for sh1t s3x... we don't get it right all the time.

I'm hoping my most recent ex crawls back in a few months for the D so I can tell her bye bye and make her feel some pain. Is that cruel of me?
 
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Murkserious said:
I'm hoping my most recent ex crawls back in a few months for the D so I can tell her bye bye and make her feel some pain. Is that cruel of me?
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yes man come on you wouldnt teach that to a newbie, have sex as if its the last time your gonna see her and expect her to vanish each time

I have sex with all my exes, its great but it runs smoothly and natural we dont hear from each other for weeks then one drops the other a message

theres no blocking or games or spite, but we also dont sit texting all day like were gonna get bk together
 
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yes man come on you wouldnt teach that to a newbie, have sex as if its the last time your gonna see her and expect her to vanish each time

I have sex with all my exes, its great but it runs smoothly and natural we dont hear from each other for weeks then one drops the other a message

theres no blocking or games or spite, but we also dont sit texting all day like were gonna get bk together
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That's what I originally wanted - as we like the same music/venues/events and DJ's I will inevitably run into her most likely in a few months. But now I just think what's the point of going back and satisfying her she can go searching for a replacement until the end of time.

I'm conflicted between the two ideas...
 
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tough call 4 of my exes dont play games 1 is a serious game player

I went on holiday to the ones house a few weeks back she lives in a village up by matlock,
Great for all parties involved how it should work like 2 Adults
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, first step is for me to just STOP thinking about this woman.

I'll play it by ear when the situation pops
 
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