What is genuine? What is mutual benefit?

[Duke]

AMAZING post by TD explaining a couple things:

1. How a PUA/DJ rationalizes NOT being himself in order to get chicks.

2. Why chicks actually EMBRACE the 'badboy' and his intentions.

Just when I thought that I couldn't possibly learn ANY MORE about PU, I stumble upon this post and it COMPLETELY synergizes the missing parts of the puzzle-- those few unanswered questions that hindered my inner game. Now my inner game is perfect! I've bookmarked this post and I plan on re-reading it as much as possible. I do NOT want to forget what I've learned!

Without further ado, Tyler Durden's



What is genuine? What is mutual benefit?

 

[Duke]

BUMP!

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

You should also read his post on Secret Society.

 

[squirrels]

I'm intrigued. Very intrigued.

Especially the part about the raunchy, sexual side of people just being another facet of who they are and actually being APPROPRIATE in certain situations.

We misrepresent ourselves in sexual situations because we've been taught that "sex is bad" in the prudish American society. So we hide that side of us. We've been given this big overbearing superego by our moral upbringing that simply refuses to admit that there IS a sexual side to us...so we're misrespresenting ourselves to OURSELVES before we even start in with the women.

You have to be genuine to yourself, first. The mantra that you hear in all the ASF stuff over and over again, "I am a man, I have certain desires, and I don't deny or make excuses for them." It's not that you're faking being sexual toward women...everyone has this creative, animalistic side. Not everyone is willing to admit it to themselves.

 

[Duke]

Exactly, Squirrels. People in America were brought up with a tremendous sense of shame attached to their natural sexuality.

TD's post clarifies how it is MUTUALLY beneficial to the guy AND girl for us to unapologetically follow our nature! And not only beneficial, but GENUINE.

She KNOWS that we aren't there to chat about our day and play patti-cakes with her. She KNOWS we want to throw her against a wall and make her scream with passion. Why tell her "You are wrong!" through your actions? Why not tell her "Yes, that is EXACTLY what I want to do!!" through your actions?

Kineti[C]harm, thanks bud! I was wondering who wrote that. I'll go read it ASAP! By the way, my name on ASF is Chance.