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Imo its leading a interaction or discution in the context of your point of view, how you see it and where you want to go with it.I've heard this term get thrown around in the context of social interaction. What's the definition in that context?
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So setting the context in a conversation?Imo its leading a interaction or discution in the context of your point of view, how you see it and where you want to go with it.
ImoSo setting the context in a conversation?
Its been explained above well so ill give you some examples. Basically your frame is what you want to be seen as or how you want the conversation to feel(Hence 'Framing the conversation'). So in conversation with someone, you may want to be seen as in control or simply confident, so you'll match your words and body language to match this 'Frame' you're trying to set.I've heard this term get thrown around in the context of social interaction. What's the definition in that context?
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This is a good way to define it. Said with other words you could say it's what way of thinking drives behavior, the reason or goal for a given behavior.Frame is like the underlying meaning of the behavior and actions.
Nope, those are frames in and of themselves. Also, having a frame of trying to be seen a particular way is a bad idea because just as with trying to attract your actions are geared towards making others have positive feelings about you. It's a better idea trying to make a conversation feel good, because your actions are then geared towards making yourself feel good.Basically your frame is what you want to be seen as or how you want the conversation to feel
This conflict occurs because you're attempting to control how the girl sees you rather than focusing on yourself. All of that mental gymnastics is completely unnecessary if you simply have a frame of feeling good and adjust your actions accordingly dependent on what the world throws at you. All of that trying to control others crap is a massive time and energy sink, time and energy that could be spent gravitating towards better things.Where it gets tricky is when there are two frames competing. Often times this is 'your' perception of you and a girls perception of you(Which could be a player, weak, sugar daddy, whatever.). This is where 'frame control' comes in, making sure that your frame is the dominant one and survives any test she throws to see if you really are who you say you are.
You seem to base a great deal of your frame around what others think of you, although I do agree that it's important to maintain the frame you set for yourself. The question is what frame?Maintaining the frame you set for yourself in the eyes of others is one of those skills that will help you in life beyond meeting women!
You're looking too deep into what was written. I wasn't comparing what frame you should be using, simply explaining what frame is and giving examples of how frame works. However I agree there are definitely quote on quote good frames to use when it comes to women. But frames go beyond women. A CEO in a boardroom meeting has a frame, A prison security guard has a frame. Its one of those social cues that no matter what it just feels off when it's broken(And women love to test).This conflict occurs because you're attempting to control how the girl sees you rather than focusing on yourself. All of that mental gymnastics is completely unnecessary if you simply have a frame of feeling good and adjust your actions accordingly dependent on what the world throws at you. All of that trying to control others crap is a massive time and energy sink, time and energy that could be spent gravitating towards better things.
You seem to base a great deal of your frame around what others think of you, although I do agree that it's important to maintain the frame you set for yourself. The question is what frame?