What is considered putting a woman on a PEDESTAL

[Clark Kent]

Can you give me a description of these two types of situations. The first situation would be an approach from a normal club, street or bar setting. So I start initiating conversation with a woman, the first thing that comes out of my mouth is "You're Cute, Bla Bla Bla " Am I putting her on a pedestal? I know you should state you're interest in girls, but isn't this making her the prize?

The second situation would be, attaining contact details from a female no longer than a week from getting it, you set up a date. She either cancels or flakes on you, what would be the proper course of action for this? Without putting her on a pedestal? Would you, call her again to re-organize another date or wait for her to do this?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

"You're Cute, Bla Bla Bla " Am I putting her on a pedestal?

depends. What's going through your mind when you say it?

A)omigodomigodomigod i hope shelikes me please like me please like ohmigod

or

B) Interesting. let's see what happens.

Would you, call her again to re-organize another date or wait for her to do this?

She won't. You can call and try once more, but don't expect much. keep getting numbers.

 

[SeymourCake]

Putting her on a pedestal is basically treating her different than anybody else just because she looks good.

You don't wanna initiate a conversation with her saying she's cute. Chances are, she's heard that a thousand times. Try a different approach.

 

[jophil28]

...you set up a date. She either cancels or flakes on you, what would be the proper course of action for this? Without putting her on a pedestal? Would you, call her again to re-organize another date or wait for her to do this?

Apply the 2 Strikes rule to cancelations, she gets a second chance if she gives you a credible reason for canceling and sounds enthusiatic about seeing you again ,or if she makes a counter offer.
If she cancels a second time, cut her loose.

Apply the One strike rule to flakes. No exceptions. Flaking shows a defect in her character.

That should save you from being jerked around by wackjobs, snotty princesses, women with b/fs , AW's and low interest pretenders.