“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What Is Confidence?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Belief in your abilities, especially those that promote your belief in being able to integrate with what life has to offer.
 
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I believe there is no such thing as confidence. Just fear's and self doubt clouding over your natural self. For example - the immediate moment of overcoming something that you are afraid of such as completing a bungee jump, talking to a stranger, holding eye contact with an interviewer is when you are at your most natural. The safety net will catch you, guaranteed.

Just do it.
 
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I think confidence is just your ability to do what needs to be done in order to get what you want.

I'm also suspicious of confidence as a trait because you can't really pull it out and show it to some chick, "Look, I have more confidence than he does, therefore you should be attracted to me". All you can do is show you handle different situations, and show good body language.
 
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