What is CHARISMA?? How to exude it?

[davelmn2003]

I don't see the word Charisma a lot on this forum. What do you think it is? How do you inculcate this in yourself? And how to communicate your charisma to women??

 

[Sting]

charisma

n : a personal attractiveness that enables you to influence others [syn: personal appeal, personal magnetism]


Charisma flows from being comfortable with yourself, and exuding those traits people would like to have for themselves. It has been said that "opposites attract" in life. This is correct. For example, people who are lacking in self-control will gravitate towards those who appear to be in control.

In dealing with women, you will need to exhibit those traits to which women are specifically attracted -- which will often vary in certain degrees from woman to woman -- but which have been articulated here on numerous occasions. Some posters here have said that in the case of confidence and other attractive qualities you should "fake it until you make it." I don't agree. True charisma comes from knowing yourself and having the actual confidence to handle yourself in any common situation. In the case of "players," their intent/motivation for exuding charisma may be corrupt, but their charisma is true because they know what they want and are willing to do what it takes to get it.

 

[sonick182]

For me, the definition of Charisma is the ability to effectively build rapport, and connect with almost anybody..

Its alot more than that though, hard to explain...

 

[Duke]

I reccomend reading this article : http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16913

It touches up on charisma; I believe you will find your answer there.

 

[Paranoid]

I had posted this sometime back...see if it helps you

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30078