davelmn2003
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I don't see the word Charisma a lot on this forum. What do you think it is? How do you inculcate this in yourself? And how to communicate your charisma to women??
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What is CHARISMA?? How to exude it?
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charisma
n : a personal attractiveness that enables you to influence others [syn: personal appeal, personal magnetism]
Charisma flows from being comfortable with yourself, and exuding those traits people would like to have for themselves. It has been said that "opposites attract" in life. This is correct. For example, people who are lacking in self-control will gravitate towards those who appear to be in control.
In dealing with women, you will need to exhibit those traits to which women are specifically attracted -- which will often vary in certain degrees from woman to woman -- but which have been articulated here on numerous occasions. Some posters here have said that in the case of confidence and other attractive qualities you should "fake it until you make it." I don't agree. True charisma comes from knowing yourself and having the actual confidence to handle yourself in any common situation. In the case of "players," their intent/motivation for exuding charisma may be corrupt, but their charisma is true because they know what they want and are willing to do what it takes to get it.
n : a personal attractiveness that enables you to influence others [syn: personal appeal, personal magnetism]
Charisma flows from being comfortable with yourself, and exuding those traits people would like to have for themselves. It has been said that "opposites attract" in life. This is correct. For example, people who are lacking in self-control will gravitate towards those who appear to be in control.
In dealing with women, you will need to exhibit those traits to which women are specifically attracted -- which will often vary in certain degrees from woman to woman -- but which have been articulated here on numerous occasions. Some posters here have said that in the case of confidence and other attractive qualities you should "fake it until you make it." I don't agree. True charisma comes from knowing yourself and having the actual confidence to handle yourself in any common situation. In the case of "players," their intent/motivation for exuding charisma may be corrupt, but their charisma is true because they know what they want and are willing to do what it takes to get it.
I reccomend reading this article : http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16913
It touches up on charisma; I believe you will find your answer there.
It touches up on charisma; I believe you will find your answer there.
Paranoid
Senior Don Juan
I had posted this sometime back...see if it helps you
http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30078
http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30078