"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is cancel culture?

Black Widow Void

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Interesting enough, the below italicized ... is a copy & paste to a forum topic that just now was closed (just now .. as in, I typed the below and could not send because during my typing, a mod chose to close the topic).

re: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/remember-to-register-to-vote.266662/#post-2773455

I was still able to copy and paste my words and so I submit it to this new subject heading.

I'm still not certain about the definition of the term "cancel culture."

If (within this particular posting.... edit; "this particular posting" refers to a posting that ironically was removed when typing the italicized ) we exchange thoughts in a civil discourse manner (there's no name-calling etc..) and yet, a mod deems it as "bad" and removes our ability to further comment...
would this serve as an example of "cancel culture?"
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cancel Culture = silence anyone who doesn't agree with us through threats and intimidation.

It's primarily a tool used by the extreme left and their allies in the mainstream media.
 

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Thanks. Maybe my interpretation of "cancel culture" wasn't entirely correct.

Since a mod (or mods) seem to make a practice of removing political discussions (while the discussion is still civil)...
perhaps the "Anything Else" forum should be changed to:

Anything Else (unless a mod deems it non-entertaining)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cancel Culture means we've become Communist, as that is what took place during the Soviet Union reign. People were more than "cancelled" on social media/jobs, they were outright "disappeared" into the afterlife. What Tribe started Communism? and can only be For Communism to survive?
 

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@Black Widow Void I really didn’t want to close the thread as I’m sure you read from me at the end “closed with apologies”. But it was against forum rules and headed off the rails. Guaranteed. The forum rules say no political threads. We try to carefully administer that rule and let a lot of things go. But any thread that has certain keywords in it like Trump, Biden, Hillary, left wing, right wing, liberal, conservative, etc. always ends up in a pizzing match.
 

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It fills the gap if the criminal justice refuses to prosecute karens for abusing the 911 system or abuses their white priviledge and can only be sanctioned socially as they get a pass by the system. If the criminal justice system was fair then the cancel culture would be invalid.
 

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And there it goes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, I'm not going to sleep tonight.
 
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