"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is cancel culture?

Black Widow Void

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Interesting enough, the below italicized ... is a copy & paste to a forum topic that just now was closed (just now .. as in, I typed the below and could not send because during my typing, a mod chose to close the topic).

re: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/remember-to-register-to-vote.266662/#post-2773455

I was still able to copy and paste my words and so I submit it to this new subject heading.

I'm still not certain about the definition of the term "cancel culture."

If (within this particular posting.... edit; "this particular posting" refers to a posting that ironically was removed when typing the italicized ) we exchange thoughts in a civil discourse manner (there's no name-calling etc..) and yet, a mod deems it as "bad" and removes our ability to further comment...
would this serve as an example of "cancel culture?"
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cancel Culture = silence anyone who doesn't agree with us through threats and intimidation.

It's primarily a tool used by the extreme left and their allies in the mainstream media.
 

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Thanks. Maybe my interpretation of "cancel culture" wasn't entirely correct.

Since a mod (or mods) seem to make a practice of removing political discussions (while the discussion is still civil)...
perhaps the "Anything Else" forum should be changed to:

Anything Else (unless a mod deems it non-entertaining)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cancel Culture means we've become Communist, as that is what took place during the Soviet Union reign. People were more than "cancelled" on social media/jobs, they were outright "disappeared" into the afterlife. What Tribe started Communism? and can only be For Communism to survive?
 

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@Black Widow Void I really didn’t want to close the thread as I’m sure you read from me at the end “closed with apologies”. But it was against forum rules and headed off the rails. Guaranteed. The forum rules say no political threads. We try to carefully administer that rule and let a lot of things go. But any thread that has certain keywords in it like Trump, Biden, Hillary, left wing, right wing, liberal, conservative, etc. always ends up in a pizzing match.
 

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It fills the gap if the criminal justice refuses to prosecute karens for abusing the 911 system or abuses their white priviledge and can only be sanctioned socially as they get a pass by the system. If the criminal justice system was fair then the cancel culture would be invalid.
 

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And there it goes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, I'm not going to sleep tonight.
 
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