oceanlover1970
Don Juan
I assume this is answered in "Weapons of Mass Seduction" (I just downloaded it), but I what is "C + F" and why is it so rare for a woman to be skilled at it?
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
What is C + F?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
****y funny, because women arn't normally ****y funny, for obvious reasons.Originally posted by oceanlover1970
I assume this is answered in "Weapons of Mass Seduction" (I just downloaded it), but I what is "C + F" and why is it so rare for a woman to be skilled at it?
oceanlover1970
Don Juan
"for obvious reasons" --
then what about that small percentage that is? how did they get to be that way? and, is that what men like?
then what about that small percentage that is? how did they get to be that way? and, is that what men like?
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Women arn't really that way in general, but sometimes you will find some quick witted enough to make cleaver responses and remarks to guy being ****y funny.
There are also varying degrees of ****y/funny, so you don't necessarily have to come off conceted to pull off acting that way, either. If you do it right it will not look conceted at all.