"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is C + F?

oceanlover1970

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I assume this is answered in "Weapons of Mass Seduction" (I just downloaded it), but I what is "C + F" and why is it so rare for a woman to be skilled at it?:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"for obvious reasons" --

then what about that small percentage that is? how did they get to be that way? and, is that what men like?
 

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Originally posted by oceanlover1970
"for obvious reasons" --

then what about that small percentage that is? how did they get to be that way? and, is that what men like?
Women arn't really that way in general, but sometimes you will find some quick witted enough to make cleaver responses and remarks to guy being ****y funny.

There are also varying degrees of ****y/funny, so you don't necessarily have to come off conceted to pull off acting that way, either. If you do it right it will not look conceted at all.
 
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