She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Espi, I respect your opinion. However it's just what it is: your opinion.Espi said:T & A.
For me, a HB is simply about tits and a$s. It's a biological fact that men like women with large breasts and nice hips.
Think about it:
Would Kate Hudson stop traffic? NO.
Would Pamela Anderson stop traffic? YES
Today's runaway "Models" are NOT HB's. Those kinds of girls are marketed by gay men.
Millions of women have went under the knife to enlarge their breasts.
But very few have had their a$ses surgically enhanced. Does anyone know a girl who says, "I hate my ass. I want to have surgery to make it more visually enhancing to men." As long as her butt is relatively thin and she has a large rack, she's good to go.
A HB has large breasts, a slim to semi-slim a$s, and an average face. The larger the chest and slimmer the a$s, the more likely she is considered a HB. A HB doesn't have to be confident, either. I could care less whether she's smart, dumb, a bimbo, materialistic, etc.
Come on man... they are far from all being the Kate Moss waif type. Look at the Victoria's Secret models, for you they are not hot???Today's runaway "Models" are NOT HB's.
Please... If your "conspiracy theory" was true, won't it be simpler and better for them if they just start marketing gay men towards the heterosexuals?Those kinds of girls are marketed by gay men.
Agreed.Scrumtulescence said:one man's HB9.5 is another man's HB7.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your contradicting yourself. You're acknowledging that guys like good sized t & a then saying that the ass has to be small relative to the tits. Disproportioned figures aren't sexy to me. I believe the hourglass is preferred-that is equally ample t & a. Also I know quite a few guys who actually prefer the ass to be bigger than the tits.Espi said:T & A.
For me, a HB is simply about tits and a$s. It's a biological fact that men like women with large breasts and nice hips.
Think about it:
Would Kate Hudson stop traffic? NO.
Would Pamela Anderson stop traffic? YES
Today's runaway "Models" are NOT HB's. Those kinds of girls are marketed by gay men.
Millions of women have went under the knife to enlarge their breasts.
But very few have had their a$ses surgically enhanced. Does anyone know a girl who says, "I hate my ass. I want to have surgery to make it more visually enhancing to men." As long as her butt is relatively thin and she has a large rack, she's good to go.
A HB has large breasts, a slim to semi-slim a$s, and an average face. The larger the chest and slimmer the a$s, the more likely she is considered a HB. A HB doesn't have to be confident, either. I could care less whether she's smart, dumb, a bimbo, materialistic, etc.