Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Espi, I respect your opinion. However it's just what it is: your opinion.Espi said:T & A.
For me, a HB is simply about tits and a$s. It's a biological fact that men like women with large breasts and nice hips.
Think about it:
Would Kate Hudson stop traffic? NO.
Would Pamela Anderson stop traffic? YES
Today's runaway "Models" are NOT HB's. Those kinds of girls are marketed by gay men.
Millions of women have went under the knife to enlarge their breasts.
But very few have had their a$ses surgically enhanced. Does anyone know a girl who says, "I hate my ass. I want to have surgery to make it more visually enhancing to men." As long as her butt is relatively thin and she has a large rack, she's good to go.
A HB has large breasts, a slim to semi-slim a$s, and an average face. The larger the chest and slimmer the a$s, the more likely she is considered a HB. A HB doesn't have to be confident, either. I could care less whether she's smart, dumb, a bimbo, materialistic, etc.
Come on man... they are far from all being the Kate Moss waif type. Look at the Victoria's Secret models, for you they are not hot???Today's runaway "Models" are NOT HB's.
Please... If your "conspiracy theory" was true, won't it be simpler and better for them if they just start marketing gay men towards the heterosexuals?Those kinds of girls are marketed by gay men.
Agreed.Scrumtulescence said:one man's HB9.5 is another man's HB7.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your contradicting yourself. You're acknowledging that guys like good sized t & a then saying that the ass has to be small relative to the tits. Disproportioned figures aren't sexy to me. I believe the hourglass is preferred-that is equally ample t & a. Also I know quite a few guys who actually prefer the ass to be bigger than the tits.Espi said:T & A.
For me, a HB is simply about tits and a$s. It's a biological fact that men like women with large breasts and nice hips.
Think about it:
Would Kate Hudson stop traffic? NO.
Would Pamela Anderson stop traffic? YES
Today's runaway "Models" are NOT HB's. Those kinds of girls are marketed by gay men.
Millions of women have went under the knife to enlarge their breasts.
But very few have had their a$ses surgically enhanced. Does anyone know a girl who says, "I hate my ass. I want to have surgery to make it more visually enhancing to men." As long as her butt is relatively thin and she has a large rack, she's good to go.
A HB has large breasts, a slim to semi-slim a$s, and an average face. The larger the chest and slimmer the a$s, the more likely she is considered a HB. A HB doesn't have to be confident, either. I could care less whether she's smart, dumb, a bimbo, materialistic, etc.