"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is a "nice guy " anyhow

Vodkaholic

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Hey everyone! My first post here.....
I hope I`ll have some good reports in the very near future!!...

Anyway, I don`t understand this "nice guy" stuff. What defines a nice guy? I know lots of nice guys who get laid a lot. And I know a lot of "jerks" who don`t. :rolleyes:

I mean, if you think of what women you find attractive are they all "bad girls?" No.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nice guy definition

A nice guy is a doormat usually an emotional tampon. He lets women play him for a fool and an ego boost.

When A girl says that she wants a nice guy. She means I want a guy who is confident, manly, not a pr!ck, won't embarras me, and all that good jazz.

The translation is lost in ******** because when the guy hears that he thinks nice is doing more stuff for her and talking to her longer.

Just a little common knowledge. I have to go for my baseball practice. when I get back maybe I will make up a bigger thing to What is a nice guy.
 

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raed it (sorry thats the vodka)
 

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since I am to lazy and have homework read the bible

This is a good idea. I suggest it to all newbies to read it. I think I will put a link in my sig because some people don't see it in the upper right hand cornor.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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