"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is a laid-back personality?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You can't imitate the laid back personality. Each person you meet will be representative of 1 out of maybe 20-30 personalities that are out there. And of those 20-30 personalities, only 3-5 are the laid back types while the rest are either emotional or type a robotic types.

And if you're asking "how does a laid back personality" act, you're probably not laid back. I know what laid back is, I see it in the mirror every day. Laid back does not equate success whatsoever, it just means you're a lot more realistic or hedonistic.
 

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MooseGod said:
I think what constitutes a laid-back personality is the attitude that "win or lose, it's all good."
nicely said, this is what it actually means and also true if u r asking this, u r not a laid back person and i would like to add something:

laid back personality are basically of two types:

first, who dont care about what happens in their life, if its good or bad, it is the way it is. they are in other words, LAZY.

second, who have a goal in their life and they know they would reach there, whatever happens. this in other words, CONFIDENT.

thats it.
 
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