"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is a laid-back personality?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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You can't imitate the laid back personality. Each person you meet will be representative of 1 out of maybe 20-30 personalities that are out there. And of those 20-30 personalities, only 3-5 are the laid back types while the rest are either emotional or type a robotic types.

And if you're asking "how does a laid back personality" act, you're probably not laid back. I know what laid back is, I see it in the mirror every day. Laid back does not equate success whatsoever, it just means you're a lot more realistic or hedonistic.
 

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MooseGod said:
I think what constitutes a laid-back personality is the attitude that "win or lose, it's all good."
nicely said, this is what it actually means and also true if u r asking this, u r not a laid back person and i would like to add something:

laid back personality are basically of two types:

first, who dont care about what happens in their life, if its good or bad, it is the way it is. they are in other words, LAZY.

second, who have a goal in their life and they know they would reach there, whatever happens. this in other words, CONFIDENT.

thats it.
 
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