This has been a struggle for me over the years. I cannot seem to change from negative to positive,and I would say this has effected me greatly in many ways. Socially,confidence,and other things. When I am at work,I am in a better mood,a bit more sociable, and active. Thats probably why I feel that way,yet I can't seem to turn it around and apply to other ways. What are ways I can change thought patterns?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What is a good way to change thought patterns??
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