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what is a good count for sexual partners a woman has?

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"Loose" women tend to be more unstable and cause more problems in a mans life?



Yeah. And as a dad, your cool if daughter puts off sex for as long as possible ( after college till after she has gotten going in her career ) because sex, the games behind it, the emotions, etc can be a huge distraction.
If you marry them, yes.
 

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So the proper way to handle them is "catch and release" or "pump and dump"?
Depends on you. If you're the type who gets attached, then yes. Better to keep them at arm's length. If you aren't likely to get confused, and can remain emotionally detached, there's no rush....especially if she's just looking for fun, too.

The only issue I have is when she wants to get married, and you don't. Cut her loose, as soon as you know that.

If you don't move in with them or spend money on them, the intensity and longevity usually sort themselves out, anyway.
 

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Depends on you. If you're the type who gets attached, then yes. Better to keep them at arm's length. If you aren't likely to get confused, and can remain emotionally detached, there's no rush....especially if she's just looking for fun, too.

The only issue I have is when she wants to get married, and you don't. Cut her loose, as soon as you know that.

If you don't move in with them or spend money on them, the intensity and longevity usually sort themselves out, anyway.
Can those types just never be trusted to a real relationship?
 

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The stories mrgoodstuff shared make me cry. But they also prove why being red pilled is your best bet in today's world.
 

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That's the thing men used to know...which women were for recreation, and which were for procreation. Seems too many guys have gotten confused, and are trying to make hoes into housewives.
lol or the best women out there nowadays are also hoes
 

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Here's what I have noticed over the years from women in the 30-45 age group.

-If she hasn't been in long term relationships then she has likely had too much cahk.

-The more emotional/irrational she is, the more cahk she's had.

-If her father was absent in her childhood she's had a lot of cahk.

-If she's never been married she's likely had too much cahk.
 

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Doesn't matter, they're gonna lie about it anyway lol
 

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I believe obsessing over womens' sexual history is unhealthy, and that it's not red/black pilled at all to do so but rather a twisted remnant of blue pill idealism. I expect almost any guy reading that to deny it outwardly because that what you're supposed to do, but feel it's true within...

It's not that you should "accept who she is" but rather that idealizing her at all is unhealthy. Added on to that, I don't think it's sustainable to obsess over it either anyway because women can and do have loads of sex with loads of men and the only way to avoid that is to create hellhole societies like Afghanistan. You'll have lives of paranoia, obsession, totalitarian oppressive control... fvck that. That's not love anyway. I always had this perspective bubbling in my mind, but lately it has become undeniable that this is the way I really feel about it. When I'm actually standing there talking to a woman in real life.... I really don't feel like I give a shyt. If you have no idealism weighing you down, why would you? and I can say it feels very freeing to let go of that weight, you are the one whose peace and contentment is the worst affected by it.

Are your aims and habits compatible? can she pair bond healthily? does she respect you? does she desire you? do you enjoy being with her? Yes/no to those 5 and you're good to go. Relax and let go of needless unhealthy blue pill idealism that just hinders people from being able to find contentment in reality.
Women should just stop telling about their past sexual experience.
Its actually an iron rule of Tomassi that can easily be applied to women. Men don't ask, women don't tell.
Outside of Sosuave I will no longer speak of past relationships.
 

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Concern about a woman's partners = to avoid STDs.
Body count doesn't matter to me otherwise.

A clean feminine submissive woman is the kind I prefer, great if she's my type else #next.
 
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