Alright guys, time for a little self reflection. If you are on this forum, chances are you aspire to be a 'DJ'. So I ask this question to you - What is a DJ? What kind of values or standards would a DJ have? There are no right or wrong answers and you don't have to answer all the questions.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What is a DJ?
- Thread starter Falcon
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
a dj to me is someone who has morals and goals to achieve.
morals such as to self resepect, respect others
to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,
Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
morals such as to self resepect, respect others
to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,
Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
A DJ is somebody who understands himself, is honest, and knows what women want.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself, is honest.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself.
A DJ is somebody who understands.
A DJ is somebody.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself, is honest.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself.
A DJ is somebody who understands.
A DJ is somebody.
let me explain more for a djs mind.. maybe you guys understand.
a member from another post said this
u think that was ALL talent? no it simply wasnt. he had to work his ass like that.
Mj, one of the greatest ball player, kobe, dropping 81 points..
lebrone james dropping 52 points in high school with 14 assists.
you see. you can sit in ur chair and do nothing its fine. but you can also get off ur ass and do something. its all really how u put it to be. you call your own desinty
and its soo easy that. you can get motivation from ANYwhere..
a member from another post said this
true, theres No limit in yourself. we has humans have the ability to suceed BEyond messaure.. i know this is a poor example but 50 cent. look where he is. got his own clothing line, video game. movie. he may suck but man hes making the green like nothing.
u think that was ALL talent? no it simply wasnt. he had to work his ass like that.
Mj, one of the greatest ball player, kobe, dropping 81 points..
lebrone james dropping 52 points in high school with 14 assists.
you see. you can sit in ur chair and do nothing its fine. but you can also get off ur ass and do something. its all really how u put it to be. you call your own desinty
and its soo easy that. you can get motivation from ANYwhere..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
