Alright guys, time for a little self reflection. If you are on this forum, chances are you aspire to be a 'DJ'. So I ask this question to you - What is a DJ? What kind of values or standards would a DJ have? There are no right or wrong answers and you don't have to answer all the questions.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What is a DJ?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
a dj to me is someone who has morals and goals to achieve.
morals such as to self resepect, respect others
to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,
Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
morals such as to self resepect, respect others
to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,
Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
A DJ is somebody who understands himself, is honest, and knows what women want.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself, is honest.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself.
A DJ is somebody who understands.
A DJ is somebody.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself, is honest.
A DJ is somebody who understands himself.
A DJ is somebody who understands.
A DJ is somebody.
let me explain more for a djs mind.. maybe you guys understand.
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u think that was ALL talent? no it simply wasnt. he had to work his ass like that.
Mj, one of the greatest ball player, kobe, dropping 81 points..
lebrone james dropping 52 points in high school with 14 assists.
you see. you can sit in ur chair and do nothing its fine. but you can also get off ur ass and do something. its all really how u put it to be. you call your own desinty
and its soo easy that. you can get motivation from ANYwhere..
a member from another post said this
true, theres No limit in yourself. we has humans have the ability to suceed BEyond messaure.. i know this is a poor example but 50 cent. look where he is. got his own clothing line, video game. movie. he may suck but man hes making the green like nothing.
u think that was ALL talent? no it simply wasnt. he had to work his ass like that.
Mj, one of the greatest ball player, kobe, dropping 81 points..
lebrone james dropping 52 points in high school with 14 assists.
you see. you can sit in ur chair and do nothing its fine. but you can also get off ur ass and do something. its all really how u put it to be. you call your own desinty
and its soo easy that. you can get motivation from ANYwhere..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
