"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is a DJ to do on Valentine's Day?

BPH

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I'm in High School and it's on a Tuesday. I know this is the day that most people probably have sex as well as the day most people break up.

I'm single and I enjoy being single, but is this one of those holidays that are overly hyped or is it a day that makes it harder/easier to be a DJ?

Sorry if the question is vague, I don't know how to word this but I hope some of you can pick it up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iceberg

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What is a DJ to do?

Buy your favorite ice cream, put on your coziest slippers, and sit at home crying.

Valentine's Day is like any other day. It has no special meaning. The only people who fear valentine's day are whiny single women, AFCs, and couples who lack originality.

If you were of drinking age, I'd tell you to hit up the bars and clubs for desperate single women looking for validation. But you're not. So I'll just tell you not to care.
 

Leopold

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Valentines? What's so special about it?

If anything special will happen that day is that I'll work extra hard when hitting the gym.
 

Bible_Belt

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Valentine's and Christmas are a good time to not have a girlfriend, because then you don't have to buy them anything. My girlfriend is only getting a card, but it's still annoying. I hate cards, but she likes them, so oh well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shizz702

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Well what I'm gonna do is have a f<ck fest with one my plates and have her cook me a nice dinner.

Let's not forget steak and a bl0wjob day, that is gonna be a good day!
 

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I like to give out the tiny envelope Valentine's like we gave out in school. It's a good excuse to go flirt with your favorite customer service crushes.
 

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st_99 said:
dumbest 'holiday' on the planet.

No, in Canada we have a holiday called "Family day" that happens a week after valentines. No work, no school and its ironic no one really ever gets together as a family.

NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT IT THOUGH!
 
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