"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is a DJ to do on Valentine's Day?

BPH

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I'm in High School and it's on a Tuesday. I know this is the day that most people probably have sex as well as the day most people break up.

I'm single and I enjoy being single, but is this one of those holidays that are overly hyped or is it a day that makes it harder/easier to be a DJ?

Sorry if the question is vague, I don't know how to word this but I hope some of you can pick it up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Iceberg

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What is a DJ to do?

Buy your favorite ice cream, put on your coziest slippers, and sit at home crying.

Valentine's Day is like any other day. It has no special meaning. The only people who fear valentine's day are whiny single women, AFCs, and couples who lack originality.

If you were of drinking age, I'd tell you to hit up the bars and clubs for desperate single women looking for validation. But you're not. So I'll just tell you not to care.
 

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Valentines? What's so special about it?

If anything special will happen that day is that I'll work extra hard when hitting the gym.
 

Bible_Belt

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Valentine's and Christmas are a good time to not have a girlfriend, because then you don't have to buy them anything. My girlfriend is only getting a card, but it's still annoying. I hate cards, but she likes them, so oh well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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shizz702

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Well what I'm gonna do is have a f<ck fest with one my plates and have her cook me a nice dinner.

Let's not forget steak and a bl0wjob day, that is gonna be a good day!
 

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I like to give out the tiny envelope Valentine's like we gave out in school. It's a good excuse to go flirt with your favorite customer service crushes.
 

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st_99 said:
dumbest 'holiday' on the planet.

No, in Canada we have a holiday called "Family day" that happens a week after valentines. No work, no school and its ironic no one really ever gets together as a family.

NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT IT THOUGH!
 
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