Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Interested Women Do...

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This post might seem a little bit redundant, but I thought some of the Dons needed to be reminded of these little things...

What Interested Women Do (in no particular order):

- They return your phone calls.

- They call you even when it's not "their turn".

- They find the time to meet you.

- They give you gifts.

- They try to introduce you to their close friends.

- They try to introduce you to their family.

- They dress up for you.

- They undress for you.

- They always have something to tell you.

- They touch you a lot.

- They want you to touch them a lot.

- They moan.

- They like to be with you for the purpose of being with you.

- They brag about you to their friends.

- They let you live your own life.

- They say "thank you" when you call.

- They say "that was very nice" when you do something very nice.

- They enjoy pleasuring you.

- They cook for you if they're good cooks.

- They don't cook for you if they're terrible cooks.

- They're not afraid of your friends. Especially your female friends.

- They ask you a lot of personal questions.

- They casually mention the words "commitment", "relationship", "marriage", "kids", etc... not necessarily with regards to you.

- They call your BS.

- They don't force themselves on you.

- They tell you that they love you.

- They don't ask you if you love them back.

Do you guys have anything to add to this list? Anything you disagree with?

K.

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"Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly" - The Dalai Lama.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hmm, you pretty much covered the main ones, only more specific examples could be said.
Nice list
 
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Well i disagree with the bad cook one. Even if they are bad cooks they should try to cook for u once. Its the thought that counts. AWE HOW SWEET.

Also, a lot of interested women cant control theirselves and force theirselves on u so that they take up a big chunk of your time. Its just like how a lot of guys are when they are interested in girls.

Also one biggie that u eluded to but not directly. They flop open their legs for ya.

Also they make theirselves more flexible for u.
 
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Krynnster

good post. Also you could have added what interested women do before you appraoch them even ie look at you, eye contact, smile. move a bit closer to you, etc etc
 
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Krynnster:
They bring U beer, drive to your place, listen to all your stories, laugh at your humor, compliment U on your pants, your colonge, your hair, your etc. etc., smile a lot, always try to hold your hand (I try to disuade that). Poet

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The cat that walks alone...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Massage your feet after a long day.
Massage your muscles after you work out.
Buy you clothes.

This one definitely happens: They take lots of pictures of the two of you together. Also a sure sign of a girl liking you.

They tease you.


Nice list!
 
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One more thing K, probably the most important thing...


They got more patience with you..

They take your Bulls**t more.

Alot of girls when problems arive, they run away.

This are the girls that don't really like you or just wanted to fuc* you.
 
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I like the comments so far. We should evolve this list and then make sure everybody reads it before they ask the oh-so-popular question: "is she interested in me?".

K.

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"Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly" - The Dalai Lama.
 
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Alot of girls when problems arive, they run away.

This are the girls that don't really like you or just wanted to fuc* you.[/B][/QUOTE]

Wow. Gotta agree with this one big time. When they will work out problems it means they want a relationship; when they take off it means they were just using you for now. I used to think that women went into relationships 100%, but I guess that really isn't the case.

Here are others:

An interested woman...

***Will greet you with a smile each time you meet.*** If she aint smiling when she sees you it means she aint happy, and your job is to keep her happy.

DJBe
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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- they laugh at every stupid joke make

- whenever you mention you like something or you want to go/travel somewhere after a short time-period they like it themselves!

- sometimes they feel a little bit insecurity when in your presence

- they get all aroused when in your presence

- they make time for you even if they are very busy!

ciao tomazu
 
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I can't believe nobody mentioned this yet...
but, when a woman acts different with you than she does with all other men that is a sign of interest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great, I had almost all the signs with one girl. Within three weeks I've systematicly erased those signs, still don't know how i did that...
 
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Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Great, I had almost all the signs with one girl. Within three weeks I've systematicly erased those signs, still don't know how i did that...
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didn't act on it? Or where you not interested?
 
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they make your favorite dinner...
interested women know the way to a mans heart is thru his tummy:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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