"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What Interested Women Do...

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This post might seem a little bit redundant, but I thought some of the Dons needed to be reminded of these little things...

What Interested Women Do (in no particular order):

- They return your phone calls.

- They call you even when it's not "their turn".

- They find the time to meet you.

- They give you gifts.

- They try to introduce you to their close friends.

- They try to introduce you to their family.

- They dress up for you.

- They undress for you.

- They always have something to tell you.

- They touch you a lot.

- They want you to touch them a lot.

- They moan.

- They like to be with you for the purpose of being with you.

- They brag about you to their friends.

- They let you live your own life.

- They say "thank you" when you call.

- They say "that was very nice" when you do something very nice.

- They enjoy pleasuring you.

- They cook for you if they're good cooks.

- They don't cook for you if they're terrible cooks.

- They're not afraid of your friends. Especially your female friends.

- They ask you a lot of personal questions.

- They casually mention the words "commitment", "relationship", "marriage", "kids", etc... not necessarily with regards to you.

- They call your BS.

- They don't force themselves on you.

- They tell you that they love you.

- They don't ask you if you love them back.

Do you guys have anything to add to this list? Anything you disagree with?

K.

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"Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly" - The Dalai Lama.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmm, you pretty much covered the main ones, only more specific examples could be said.
Nice list
 
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Well i disagree with the bad cook one. Even if they are bad cooks they should try to cook for u once. Its the thought that counts. AWE HOW SWEET.

Also, a lot of interested women cant control theirselves and force theirselves on u so that they take up a big chunk of your time. Its just like how a lot of guys are when they are interested in girls.

Also one biggie that u eluded to but not directly. They flop open their legs for ya.

Also they make theirselves more flexible for u.
 
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Krynnster

good post. Also you could have added what interested women do before you appraoch them even ie look at you, eye contact, smile. move a bit closer to you, etc etc
 
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Krynnster:
They bring U beer, drive to your place, listen to all your stories, laugh at your humor, compliment U on your pants, your colonge, your hair, your etc. etc., smile a lot, always try to hold your hand (I try to disuade that). Poet

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The cat that walks alone...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Massage your feet after a long day.
Massage your muscles after you work out.
Buy you clothes.

This one definitely happens: They take lots of pictures of the two of you together. Also a sure sign of a girl liking you.

They tease you.


Nice list!
 
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One more thing K, probably the most important thing...


They got more patience with you..

They take your Bulls**t more.

Alot of girls when problems arive, they run away.

This are the girls that don't really like you or just wanted to fuc* you.
 
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I like the comments so far. We should evolve this list and then make sure everybody reads it before they ask the oh-so-popular question: "is she interested in me?".

K.

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Alot of girls when problems arive, they run away.

This are the girls that don't really like you or just wanted to fuc* you.[/B][/QUOTE]

Wow. Gotta agree with this one big time. When they will work out problems it means they want a relationship; when they take off it means they were just using you for now. I used to think that women went into relationships 100%, but I guess that really isn't the case.

Here are others:

An interested woman...

***Will greet you with a smile each time you meet.*** If she aint smiling when she sees you it means she aint happy, and your job is to keep her happy.

DJBe
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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- they laugh at every stupid joke make

- whenever you mention you like something or you want to go/travel somewhere after a short time-period they like it themselves!

- sometimes they feel a little bit insecurity when in your presence

- they get all aroused when in your presence

- they make time for you even if they are very busy!

ciao tomazu
 
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I can't believe nobody mentioned this yet...
but, when a woman acts different with you than she does with all other men that is a sign of interest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Great, I had almost all the signs with one girl. Within three weeks I've systematicly erased those signs, still don't know how i did that...
 
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Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Great, I had almost all the signs with one girl. Within three weeks I've systematicly erased those signs, still don't know how i did that...
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didn't act on it? Or where you not interested?
 
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they make your favorite dinner...
interested women know the way to a mans heart is thru his tummy:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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