"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What im going to do

xxxslash616xxx

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Im not gonna let myself fall back on this one. I am gonna go into it.

I go to college, and I see a lot of girls there.. well duh.

Anyway I'm just gonna stick around after class one day and walk around. Anywhoo whenever I see a girl by herself im gonna look her over. Not in a pervy way just checking her out. Looking over her to see if I cant spot any key interests that we may have in common. For example if she had some shirt on with an anime featured on it. I would use that to start talking to her. What im saying is I'd use what I see from her to start the convo. Lets use my previous example and this is what I would say.

"Excuse me, I noticed you are wearing ((whatever shirt)). Thats a pretty good series, did you happen to see the last episode."

Her: either yes or no.

"Oh well, ((my opinion on the last episode)) So what do you think of ((character))"

and so on. And of course it dosent have to be that. It can be music a band, whatever. What im asking is, is this a good stragegy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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too suave

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try to ask open ended questions to get her talking instead of you going on about something
 

Cod3r

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I've found that making them laugh from the start really makes things easier...

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Hottest girl I've ever pulled in the club... I used this...

ME: Dosen't it suck to look good ?
HER: Why ?
ME: No one ever approaches us... *walked away*
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She opened me later on that night, fun time... sadly no hookup tho


-COd3r
 

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Hmm how about i ask about the episode which is my first line. Then since its college i skip to something like. "So, what classes are you taking this semester?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cod3r

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^ ^ Officially done giving advice to you... lol good luck


-Cod3r
 
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