Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What im going to do

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Im not gonna let myself fall back on this one. I am gonna go into it.

I go to college, and I see a lot of girls there.. well duh.

Anyway I'm just gonna stick around after class one day and walk around. Anywhoo whenever I see a girl by herself im gonna look her over. Not in a pervy way just checking her out. Looking over her to see if I cant spot any key interests that we may have in common. For example if she had some shirt on with an anime featured on it. I would use that to start talking to her. What im saying is I'd use what I see from her to start the convo. Lets use my previous example and this is what I would say.

"Excuse me, I noticed you are wearing ((whatever shirt)). Thats a pretty good series, did you happen to see the last episode."

Her: either yes or no.

"Oh well, ((my opinion on the last episode)) So what do you think of ((character))"

and so on. And of course it dosent have to be that. It can be music a band, whatever. What im asking is, is this a good stragegy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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too suave

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try to ask open ended questions to get her talking instead of you going on about something
 

Cod3r

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I've found that making them laugh from the start really makes things easier...

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Hottest girl I've ever pulled in the club... I used this...

ME: Dosen't it suck to look good ?
HER: Why ?
ME: No one ever approaches us... *walked away*
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She opened me later on that night, fun time... sadly no hookup tho


-COd3r
 

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Hmm how about i ask about the episode which is my first line. Then since its college i skip to something like. "So, what classes are you taking this semester?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cod3r

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^ ^ Officially done giving advice to you... lol good luck


-Cod3r
 
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