"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im not gonna let myself fall back on this one. I am gonna go into it.

I go to college, and I see a lot of girls there.. well duh.

Anyway I'm just gonna stick around after class one day and walk around. Anywhoo whenever I see a girl by herself im gonna look her over. Not in a pervy way just checking her out. Looking over her to see if I cant spot any key interests that we may have in common. For example if she had some shirt on with an anime featured on it. I would use that to start talking to her. What im saying is I'd use what I see from her to start the convo. Lets use my previous example and this is what I would say.

"Excuse me, I noticed you are wearing ((whatever shirt)). Thats a pretty good series, did you happen to see the last episode."

Her: either yes or no.

"Oh well, ((my opinion on the last episode)) So what do you think of ((character))"

and so on. And of course it dosent have to be that. It can be music a band, whatever. What im asking is, is this a good stragegy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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try to ask open ended questions to get her talking instead of you going on about something
 
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I've found that making them laugh from the start really makes things easier...

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Hottest girl I've ever pulled in the club... I used this...

ME: Dosen't it suck to look good ?
HER: Why ?
ME: No one ever approaches us... *walked away*
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She opened me later on that night, fun time... sadly no hookup tho


-COd3r
 
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Hmm how about i ask about the episode which is my first line. Then since its college i skip to something like. "So, what classes are you taking this semester?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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^ ^ Officially done giving advice to you... lol good luck


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