"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what if you don't want to f*ck?

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Hey, I'm thankful for this site and I'm glad that it's made me a whole lot better with women. (I went from nevering having a gf to having 2 ongoing ones and 1 more i'm working on!) The only problem is how do you deal with a relationship in which you don't want to have sex with them?

I'm pretty religious so I believe in the "no sex b4 marriage" thing. I just don't know how to go about keeping the relationship without appearing AFC for not wanting to have sex with them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does that include oral sex / heavy petting?

No matter if; she'll probably freak out as long as she isn't religious too. Sorry to say it, but girls love to talk about sex, think about sex and practice sex with anyone they consider as attractive - Just like guys, but in a different way.

You don't want to have sex? Stop masturbating for a couple of weeks and someone will definitely be able to change your mind. :p
 
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Damn! :mad: That's what I thought! I haven't done the oral sex thing yet, but I might as well try it later.
 
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Oral Is Sex

Originally posted by tobby
Damn! :mad: That's what I thought! I haven't done the oral sex thing yet, but I might as well try it later.
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I thought your belief was 'no sex before marriage'. Isn't that a contradiction?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And if you are sooooo religous, you probably shouldnt be on this forum. My take on this forum was for guys that wanted to meet tons of chicks, not meet their perfect little angel for marriage. If thats what you want, then this site isnt for you. Check out www.Jager_Boylovesguys.com :D

*Fixed for you, courtesy of Eternal.* :D

No hard feelings either.
 
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I still want to meet tons of chicks! I just don't want to f*ck them! I just wondered if I could still keep my current relationships without having to worry about that.
 
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Originally posted by Jager_Boy
And if you are sooooo religous, you probably shouldnt be on this forum. My take on this forum was for guys that wanted to meet tons of chicks, not meet their perfect little angel for marriage. If thats what you want, then this site isnt for you. Check out www.Jager_Boylovesguys.com :D

*Fixed for you, courtesy of Eternal.* :D

No hard feelings either.
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lmao...fvckin owned.

Yo man if you believe in what you said, then stick with it. I don't really see the issue here. yes she will think you're crazy and probably won't stay with you or go cheat on you unless she's religious too like you.

anyhow, it's not AFC. hell...an AFC would jump at a chance for a bang! Remember the F stands for FRUSTRATED! :mad: ROAR!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would stick with what you belive in and be a man about it. hold true to your convictions. That is the only way that you will get any respect. If the girl doesn't like it then you Next her ass.
She is no good for you.

In your case, you will need to find someone that shares the same ideals. You are going to have a hard time finding a girl that meets up to your ideals so be persistant with your DJing. You are going to be doing a lot of nexting. But in the end you will find exactly what you want.

In a lot of respects your ideals will save you a world of trouble. Beleive me women can make your life a total hell. If you stay true to what you belive in and have confidence (which is what this site is mostly about) then you will be fine.

The one thing that everyone should get out of this site is to stand up for yourself. Stand up for what you want and for what
you belive in.
 
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Since you claim you want a girl with the same religious ideals, I recommend going to your church (if you dont already) and/or joining youth groups there to meet chicks.
 
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