Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Involving writers influencing films in the wrong way?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lies I own the media. Haha Just kidding. But I can totally see how this may involve a couple of things.Fatal Jay said:Bankers own the media, the media idol worship celebs. It is pointless, but it will come a time when the masses will have deep hatred for celebs. That time will come sooner then you think.
Or even better. Provide some schools with funding so they may have those programs in the first place.Fatal Jay said:You can't control writers either, most of does writers and directors go to the government to get permission to make films, and also get funded.
The best thing to do is to support indie film companies and writers.
Had no idea that was going on. When I win my states Lotto I'll make sure to send it to you.Espi said:Great idea.
Problem is, the funding rarely seems to get appropriated, especially when it comes to public schools.
Here in FLA we were supposed to get plenty of money from the Lottery drawings. Great idea, many years ago.
Many of our schools still suck, though. Teachers are still underpaid.
Nobody even seems to remember that.
Let's just face it: nobody can control anything--unless there's tons of money to be made by a select few.
Filmmakers often make a ton of money by fueling controversy and testing society's mores and conventions. I think that's a GOOD thing, though, regardless of a person's intent.
With accrued interest. Than again if they are in need of money. There is this tab in a town I live in..... Reminds me I enjoy watching Star Wars from time to time. Also one more I noticed what if Bernie Madoff invented that popular series "The Secret"Espi said:Preciate that sir. Of course when you hand over the big check I'll make sure it gets appropriated for schools. (yeah right!)
But that'll be awhile since you're from the Land of Slow.![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
For government, no amount of money is ever enough.Espi said:Great idea.
Problem is, the funding rarely seems to get appropriated, especially when it comes to public schools.
Here in FLA we were supposed to get plenty of money from the Lottery drawings. Great idea, many years ago.
Many of our schools still suck, though. Teachers are still underpaid.
Nobody even seems to remember that.
Let's just face it: nobody can control anything--unless there's tons of money to be made by a select few.
Filmmakers often make a ton of money by fueling controversy and testing society's mores and conventions. I think that's a GOOD thing, though, regardless of a person's intent.
To number 3 are you mad?Mike32ct said:For government, no amount of money is ever enough.
We have a similar situation where I live.
1. Give us lottery, and we (the state) will be all set.
2. Give us a state income tax and our budget will be all set forever.
3. Give us % percentage of the casino money, and we will be all set. For real this time lol.
4. Raise the sales tax, and we should be set lol.
Schools are no different. It will NEVER be enough. That's why I laugh when hear, "We need more money for education."
vantagepoint said:Anyone remember the writers strike a couple of years back? It's still affecting us today.
How can we be sure of this?Fatal Jay said:I don't see why they had a strike in the first place, all Hollywood does is remakes.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You know I said the same thing. But I think McCarthyism was directed toward communism. Have to read into it.backbreaker said:isn't that in essence McCarthyism?
I'm serious. It's a true story.vantagepoint said:To number 3 are you mad?
Fatal Jay said:I don't see why they had a strike in the first place, all Hollywood does is remakes.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.