Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Involving writers influencing films in the wrong way?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lies I own the media. Haha Just kidding. But I can totally see how this may involve a couple of things.Fatal Jay said:Bankers own the media, the media idol worship celebs. It is pointless, but it will come a time when the masses will have deep hatred for celebs. That time will come sooner then you think.
Or even better. Provide some schools with funding so they may have those programs in the first place.Fatal Jay said:You can't control writers either, most of does writers and directors go to the government to get permission to make films, and also get funded.
The best thing to do is to support indie film companies and writers.
Had no idea that was going on. When I win my states Lotto I'll make sure to send it to you.Espi said:Great idea.
Problem is, the funding rarely seems to get appropriated, especially when it comes to public schools.
Here in FLA we were supposed to get plenty of money from the Lottery drawings. Great idea, many years ago.
Many of our schools still suck, though. Teachers are still underpaid.
Nobody even seems to remember that.
Let's just face it: nobody can control anything--unless there's tons of money to be made by a select few.
Filmmakers often make a ton of money by fueling controversy and testing society's mores and conventions. I think that's a GOOD thing, though, regardless of a person's intent.
With accrued interest. Than again if they are in need of money. There is this tab in a town I live in..... Reminds me I enjoy watching Star Wars from time to time. Also one more I noticed what if Bernie Madoff invented that popular series "The Secret"Espi said:Preciate that sir. Of course when you hand over the big check I'll make sure it gets appropriated for schools. (yeah right!)
But that'll be awhile since you're from the Land of Slow.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
For government, no amount of money is ever enough.Espi said:Great idea.
Problem is, the funding rarely seems to get appropriated, especially when it comes to public schools.
Here in FLA we were supposed to get plenty of money from the Lottery drawings. Great idea, many years ago.
Many of our schools still suck, though. Teachers are still underpaid.
Nobody even seems to remember that.
Let's just face it: nobody can control anything--unless there's tons of money to be made by a select few.
Filmmakers often make a ton of money by fueling controversy and testing society's mores and conventions. I think that's a GOOD thing, though, regardless of a person's intent.
To number 3 are you mad?Mike32ct said:For government, no amount of money is ever enough.
We have a similar situation where I live.
1. Give us lottery, and we (the state) will be all set.
2. Give us a state income tax and our budget will be all set forever.
3. Give us % percentage of the casino money, and we will be all set. For real this time lol.
4. Raise the sales tax, and we should be set lol.
Schools are no different. It will NEVER be enough. That's why I laugh when hear, "We need more money for education."
vantagepoint said:Anyone remember the writers strike a couple of years back? It's still affecting us today.
How can we be sure of this?Fatal Jay said:I don't see why they had a strike in the first place, all Hollywood does is remakes.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You know I said the same thing. But I think McCarthyism was directed toward communism. Have to read into it.backbreaker said:isn't that in essence McCarthyism?
I'm serious. It's a true story.vantagepoint said:To number 3 are you mad?
Fatal Jay said:I don't see why they had a strike in the first place, all Hollywood does is remakes.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.