"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what if u lost ur girlfriend and ur friends?
- Thread starter Jay-X
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Instead of being afraid to lose, embrace the nature of change and go after new friends and hos yourself.
The worst thing you can do is to remind yourself of a failed relationship and use that as an indicator of your value as a man.
I say good riddance. Kick the girl and the guy out of your life because its obviously they don't care about you and they have broken the trust that was established between the three of you.
catch
Senior Don Juan
we can make loads of friends, new, beter friends that we can trust and count on, and being a true up and coming DON JAUN, learning, reading the dj bible, attending boot camp, we can learn to be what we want to be..
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
catch
Senior Don Juan
1. i like my friends very much and i don't wanna lose'em
2. in italy, unfortunately, almost everybody is this way... it's a really common thing to steal someone else's girlfriend.
i know it's fùcked up (i can't even think of a friend's girlfriend in a sexual way, it just makes me sick), but what can i do?
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Well put.Originally posted by CharmaLeo
The truth in life is that we are all replaceable and some things don't last forever.
Instead of being afraid to lose, embrace the nature of change and go after new friends and hos yourself.
The worst thing you can do is to remind yourself of a failed relationship and use that as an indicator of your value as a man.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.