"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what if she gets back?

thorwynn

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yo guys, just a quick one.

well you got a relationship with girl A for 3 months...with sex of course. well things broke down, deleted you off (in fb, life, etc.) with whatever reason (either she has another guy or she's not interested anymore), then a few days...you got girl B, who's really interested in you in a consistent manner (girlfriend-wife material) for a month. and now after a month and half, girl A comes to add you back on fb without any message.

what do you guys do? do you turn her into a bed friend or just ignore her till she begs / message you? or just stay with the new one?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GameTime76

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Personally I would NOT add her. She blew her chance with YOU! Its her fault.

NOW you got a girl with High Interest! Which is what you want. Stay with her.
 

Zerro

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Girl A had her chance and she burned it, forget about her.
 

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TopGun2000 said:
forget about A
You could let A ad you back then do not speak to her that would hurt worse than turning down her invitation.

I have come to realize that sometimes when people come back , it s not always for good, they may be on the rebound, etc, or coming back because they got hurt by someone else. Who wants that?

Never warm up to someone coming back too fast, or maybe she genuinely likes you but dont go too fast.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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