"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what if she gets back?

thorwynn

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yo guys, just a quick one.

well you got a relationship with girl A for 3 months...with sex of course. well things broke down, deleted you off (in fb, life, etc.) with whatever reason (either she has another guy or she's not interested anymore), then a few days...you got girl B, who's really interested in you in a consistent manner (girlfriend-wife material) for a month. and now after a month and half, girl A comes to add you back on fb without any message.

what do you guys do? do you turn her into a bed friend or just ignore her till she begs / message you? or just stay with the new one?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GameTime76

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Personally I would NOT add her. She blew her chance with YOU! Its her fault.

NOW you got a girl with High Interest! Which is what you want. Stay with her.
 

Zerro

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Girl A had her chance and she burned it, forget about her.
 

mocha2010

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TopGun2000 said:
forget about A
You could let A ad you back then do not speak to her that would hurt worse than turning down her invitation.

I have come to realize that sometimes when people come back , it s not always for good, they may be on the rebound, etc, or coming back because they got hurt by someone else. Who wants that?

Never warm up to someone coming back too fast, or maybe she genuinely likes you but dont go too fast.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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