"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what if she asks for your number after ....?!

Heartbreaker_boy

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hey guys i will make my question brief and clear
so the question is what if a girl after i approach her and have a small conversation and then i ask for her number then she gives it to me but after i was leaving she ask me for my number .
what's the best reaction from me would be ......give her my number or tell her i'll give it to her in the next time or what ?!!

let me know what's the best thing to do in that situation
and thanks guys this forum is so useful and cool :rockon:
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sandman564

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give it to her....?
IMO if shes asking for your number shes definitely interested
 

Nicholas

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And giving your number wouldn't increase interest. Remain misterious, let her think about you, and expect your call.
 

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You can either give it to her there or call her later but I think it depends on the situation too. I think if it's a club situation where girls encounter so many girls in one night you are better off giving her your number there and then. So, she knows who it is when you call.
 

Jon55

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How exactly is this a tip?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The best thing to do? Tell her you'll give her a miss call later - so she has something to anticipate for. This will stir up attraction immediately on her subconscious level - since you demonstrated yourself as a healthy challenge :)
 

Heartbreaker_boy

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Allurre said:
The best thing to do? Tell her you'll give her a miss call later - so she has something to anticipate for. This will stir up attraction immediately on her subconscious level - since you demonstrated yourself as a healthy challenge :)
this's the best thing to do !
thanks man
 

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aren't you over analyzing?
not everything has to be a game, she probably just needs your number so she would recognized the caller when you call... many people(including myself actually) would not answer a call from an unknown number :p
 
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